Misfit or misunderstood?

Ok so when I'm around people I talk to people but I dont seem to connect and have nothing in common with specially girls. I mostly have been around people who seem trouble, false, act stupid and abit uneducated and weird if you know what i mean.Like when a group is talking i dont talk much. I even seem differemt with the most cool nice laid back people. I'm attractive, nice, funny, laidback, dozey, passionate, ambious. I think its something to do with my background i don't know. Am i a outcast or miss understood or im just around the wrong people?